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Risk Takers and Manipulators 05/24/2010
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Risk Takers and Manipulators 

 Do you enjoy life? Do you try to live each day to its fullest? Would you rather take a few risks and get the most out of life or play it safe and not hurt? If you’re a ‘live life to the fullest’ sort of person I applaud you and hope your happiness is great and your troubles few, but be observant, manipulative people keep their eyes open for those who aren’t afraid to take a chance.

Those of us who live ‘large’ will move pretty quickly in our professions, our relationships and our recreational activities. This tendency to go fast gives Two Legged Snakes (my term for manipulative people) a big advantage because that’s how they like to work; move quickly so their snaky deeds are done before they get discovered. Many a financial deal has become a disaster because too much was risked in a decision that was made too quickly for the snaky scheme to be revealed. 

 Besides finance, romance is the next life area where fast movers get hit hard. Even if your feelings say ‘full steam ahead, nothing bad could happen because this feeling is too good’, don’t move quickly with decisions that can have lasting consequences (like marriage or signing something). Take your time and savor the love you’re lucky to enjoy, if it’s the real, long lasting type it feels like, it’ll still be there next year. It’s a particularly bad sign if you’re getting a lot of encouragement from you lover to move fast or up the pace. Don’t do it, it’s your choice, the more pressure you get the more likely your dealing with a manipulator.  

 Lord knows I certainly don’t want to slow anyone down and I’m not one to encourage a fear based perspective, this is just a word to the wise that at times, fast movement can attract some unwanted and dangerous snaky attention. This is one of the reasons the music and entertainment industries have a lot of snaky people in them. Manipulators populate these industries because they are a prime target population to exploit; fast moving risk takers! Thankfully, if we are aware of this dynamic we can avoid snaky games and pay attention to the risks, and fun, at hand. At times we may slow down a bit, but that’s a lot better than a rag doll, lawn dart, Two Legged Snake disaster! 

Slack/2010

 
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    Dr. Ed Slack 

    Dr. Ed Slack is a psychologist, an author and a musician who currently resides in Nashville Tennessee. Besides his writing and a full time private practice, he’s played in a variety of touring bands in the US & Europe.He has also been heavily involved in the motor vehicle industry and has bought, sold, raced and restored cars and motorcycles for over forty years. 

     As an author, Dr. Slack is now helping others decipher the false from the true and acquire the skills to recognize when they’re being exploited. Believing that learning should be fun he's designed Two Legged Snakes: Understanding and Handling Manipulative People to be just that; an enjoyable experience.

      Talk shows Dr. Slack has appeared on include:
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    - Sallie Felton 'A Fresh Start' - Contact Talk Radio
    - On The Couch with Dr Michelle - LA Talk Radio
    - The John Davita Show - WJJG - Chicago 
    - The Danny Lee Show - WFKX - Jackson TN
    - Conversations Live! Cyrus Web - Blogtalk Radio
    - Teen Trends with Dave Cohen - LA Talk Radio
     

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